Transforming the People-Pleasing Perfectionist Leader

You Don’t Have to Sacrifice Yourself to Lead Well

You’ve been praised for your dedication, admired for your work ethic, and relied on for your emotional support.

But beneath the applause, there’s exhaustion.

This course is for the leader who’s tired of over-functioning, over-softening delegation, over-apologizing, and is ready to lead from a place of grounded grace.

Transforming the People-Pleasing Perfectionistic Leader is a six-week immersive experience designed to help you identify and release the behaviors that keep you stuck in performance mode, while building a new leadership style rooted in clarity, boundaries, and emotional integrity.

What The Pattern Looks Like

✔️ You rewrite the work of others instead of offering feedback.

✔️ You avoid direct conversations to “keep the peace”.

✔️ You volunteer for emotional labor while neglecting your own needs.

✔️ You seek validation through over-delivering.

✔️ You struggle to relax unless everything is perfectly planned.

What you need to know

Leadership does not have to be lonely. It just has to be honest.

What We'll Explore and Address

Core Modules: 

Over-functioning & Overextending

Excessive Softening to Avoid Discomfort

The Need to Be Liked or Seen as “Supportive”

Choosing Presence Over Performance

Course Format: 

📚 Weekly lessons with real-world scenarios

🎭 Role-playing exercises and reflection prompts

📓 Journaling for emotional excavation and clarity

🎧 Audio meditations and character-based stories

💬 Community space for support and shared insights

What You’ll Learn & Who You’ll Become

You’ll Learn To

• Set boundaries without guilt or apology

• Give feedback with clarity and compassion

• Delegate with trust and emotional intelligence

• Lead without over-functioning or emotional overreach

• Reconnect with your own needs while supporting others

You’ll Become

• A leader who models balance, not burnout

• A communicator who blends empathy with directness

• A professional who leads with presence, not performance

• A person who knows their worth isn’t tied to being liked

Q&A

Q: What if I’m not in a formal leadership role?  

A: This course is for anyone who leads, whether it's organizations, teams, families, communities, or themselves.

Q: What if I’ve been praised for these behaviors?  

A: That’s common. This course helps you unlearn what’s been rewarded but no longer serves you.