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Program No. 03 // Waitlist open

Grace Not Grind™ Intensive

Success shouldn't cost you your peace.

You've done everything right. You've hit the goals, led the teams, built the life. Somewhere along the way you lost something: moments, relationships, rest, joy. Grace Not Grind is a deep extension of Showing Yourself Grace, built to examine the hidden costs of achievement and rewrite the beliefs that keep you in performance mode.

Duration

7 weeks

Self-paced

$347

Live cohort

$797

Opens

In rotation

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One optional question comes with it: what are you tired of being excellent at? Your answer shapes how this cohort gets written, and it stays between us.

Two ways to take it

Same program. You choose how much of me comes with it.

Self-paced

$347

Opens to the waitlist first

The full seven-week program on your schedule. Nothing to log into, nothing to fall behind on.

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  • Every lesson by email, in your inbox each morning
  • Guided meditations for the days reading is too much
  • Weekly podcast episodes, recorded for this program
  • The resource library: worksheets, prompts, and references you keep
  • Discounted access to The Trigger Tracker AppWhen something someone says or does sets off your survival response, the reaction that follows can hurt you or someone else, whether you mean it to or not. The app helps you pause, log it, reframe it, and reset before you act. Your entries are private by design and visible only to you. Export them to see your patterns over time, or bring them to your therapist.
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Live cohort

$797

Opens when the waitlist is ready

Everything in self-paced, plus the part that changes the most: saying it out loud, to people who understand before you finish the sentence.

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  • Every lesson by email, in your inbox each morning
  • Guided meditations for the days reading is too much
  • Weekly podcast episodes, recorded for this program
  • The resource library: worksheets, prompts, and references you keep
  • A year of The Trigger Tracker App, Full Access, includedA $125 value. Pause, log, reframe, and reset a trigger before you react, then see your patterns over the year. Private by design, and yours to export or share with a therapist.
  • Seven weekly live sessions with me
  • A small group, capped at 15
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Both open to the waitlist first, at a founding price, before anyone else can enroll. You choose the format when it opens. Access terms and refunds, in plain language.

Does this sound familiar?

What grind culture looks like

In Grace Not Grind you're not slowing down. You're waking up.

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You fear mediocrity more than burnout.

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You tie your worth to your output.

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You feel guilty when you rest.

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You chase high expectations, internal and external.

05

You live with imposter syndrome, even when you're praised.

What we explore

Core modules

01

Facing the fear of mediocrity

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Tackling perfectionism

03

Downshifting high expectations

04

Unmasking imposter syndrome

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Releasing the pressure of time

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Debunking self-worth tied to achievement

Format

How it runs

01

Weekly modules with deep-dive lessons

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Reflective exercises and guided challenges

03

A community space for shared insights

04

Audio meditations and character-based stories

05

Journaling prompts for excavation and integration

The hidden cost audit

Family life

The dinners you worked through, and who stopped asking.

Social life

The friendships that thinned while you were proving something.

Work life

What excellence costs when it's fueled by fear of mediocrity.

Finances

What you spend to recover from how you earn.

By the end

You'll learn to

  • Identify the emotional cost of your success
  • Reframe perfectionism into grace-based ambition
  • Release shame tied to productivity
  • Build a definition of worth rooted in presence
  • Create sustainable practices for work, rest, and reflection

And who you become

What changes

  • You lead with clarity instead of fear
  • You honor your humanity in every role
  • You can pause without guilt
  • You know you are enough, even when you aren't producing

Questions people ask

Do I need to complete Showing Yourself Grace first?

It's strongly recommended but not required. Grace Not Grind builds on the emotional foundation laid there.

Is this only for entrepreneurs or executives?

No. It's for anyone who has ever felt their worth was measured by their output.

While you wait

Showing Yourself Grace is open now and lays the groundwork this program builds on. Many people start there and join this one when it opens.

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