Program No. 02 // Waitlist open
Transforming the People-Pleasing Perfectionistic Leader™
You don't have to sacrifice yourself to lead well.
You've been praised for your dedication, admired for your work ethic, and relied on for your emotional support. Beneath the applause, there's exhaustion. This program is for the leader who is tired of over-functioning, over-softening delegation, and over-apologizing, and is ready to lead from grounded grace.
Duration
4 weeks
Self-paced
$247
Live cohort
$597
Opens
In rotation
Join the waitlist
One optional question comes with it: what are you tired of being excellent at? Your answer shapes how this cohort gets written, and it stays between us.
Two ways to take it
Same program. You choose how much of me comes with it.
Self-paced
$247
Opens to the waitlist first
The full four-week program on your schedule. Nothing to log into, nothing to fall behind on.
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- Every lesson by email, in your inbox each morning
- Guided meditations for the days reading is too much
- Weekly podcast episodes, recorded for this program
- The resource library: worksheets, prompts, and references you keep
- Discounted access to The Trigger Tracker AppWhen something someone says or does sets off your survival response, the reaction that follows can hurt you or someone else, whether you mean it to or not. The app helps you pause, log it, reframe it, and reset before you act. Your entries are private by design and visible only to you. Export them to see your patterns over time, or bring them to your therapist.
Live cohort
$597
Opens when the waitlist is ready
Everything in self-paced, plus the part that changes the most: saying it out loud, to people who understand before you finish the sentence.
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- Every lesson by email, in your inbox each morning
- Guided meditations for the days reading is too much
- Weekly podcast episodes, recorded for this program
- The resource library: worksheets, prompts, and references you keep
- A year of The Trigger Tracker App, Full Access, includedA $125 value. Pause, log, reframe, and reset a trigger before you react, then see your patterns over the year. Private by design, and yours to export or share with a therapist.
- Four weekly live sessions with me
- A small group, capped at 15
Both open to the waitlist first, at a founding price, before anyone else can enroll. You choose the format when it opens. Access terms and refunds, in plain language.
Does this sound familiar?
What the pattern looks like
Leadership does not have to be lonely. It just has to be honest.
You rewrite other people's work instead of giving feedback.
You avoid direct conversations to keep the peace.
You volunteer for emotional labor and neglect your own needs.
You seek validation by over-delivering.
You can't relax unless everything is perfectly planned.
What we explore
Core modules
Over-functioning and overextending
Excessive softening to avoid discomfort
The need to be liked or seen as supportive
Choosing presence over performance
Format
How it runs
Weekly lessons built on real-world scenarios
Role-playing exercises and reflection prompts
Journaling for emotional excavation and clarity
Audio meditations and character-based stories
A community space for support and shared insights
Say this instead
"No worries, I'll just fix it myself."
"Here's what needs changing. Send it back to me by three."
"Sorry to bother you, but when you have a second…"
"I need fifteen minutes today. What time works?"
"I can take that on, it's fine."
"I can't add that this week. Here's what I'd move to make room."
By the end
You'll learn to
- Set boundaries without guilt or apology
- Give feedback with clarity and compassion
- Delegate with trust and emotional intelligence
- Lead without over-functioning or emotional overreach
- Reconnect with your own needs while supporting others
And who you become
What changes
- You model balance instead of burnout
- You say the direct thing without losing the warmth
- You lead with presence instead of performance
- Your worth stops depending on being liked
Questions people ask
What if I'm not in a formal leadership role?
This program is for anyone who leads: organizations, teams, families, communities, or themselves.
What if I've been praised for these behaviors?
That's common. This program helps you unlearn what's been rewarded but no longer serves you.
While you wait
Showing Yourself Grace is open now and lays the groundwork this program builds on. Many people start there and join this one when it opens.
GraceOS™ · layer 03, Practice Next: Showing Yourself Grace is open now, while this one waits for its cohort.